Document the behaviour, not the reason
The guide’s example notes describe what the child did and how they responded. Keep the “may mean” ideas for your own reflection.
A three-page Lunch & Learn resource that walks through seven common mealtime behaviours. For each one it lists what you might see, what it may mean, and an example of objective wording to document. It is for observation and reflection only — the guide states that educators are not diagnosing.
No sign-up required. Print it and share it with your team — it’s free for any child care program to use.

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Learned the hard way across 3,000 child care spaces — and from the directors and educators who join our Lunch & Learns and Learning Labs.
The guide’s example notes describe what the child did and how they responded. Keep the “may mean” ideas for your own reflection.
One refused lunch is not a concern in itself. Look at a few weeks of notes before raising it with a family.
Three printed pages in the room binder are quicker to check at mealtime than a file on the office computer.
Do it digitally in ChildFriendly Pro
Build the same plan in ChildFriendly Pro and every observation you log is tagged to FLIGHT, ELECT, ELF or your own outcomes, added to each child’s portfolio and shared with families in their daily journal.

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Read more FAQsNo. The guide says educators are not diagnosing, labeling or assessing medical or developmental conditions. It offers possible explanations to help you respond supportively and write clearer notes.
The guide says that if ongoing concerns arise, your observations can help inform respectful conversations with families or appropriate professionals.
No. It is a three-page reading guide, not a recording form. Write your notes wherever you normally record meals and observations.
No. The guide refers to documenting in ChildFriendly Pro, but the example wording works in any daily report or observation record.
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